CLEVELAND -- NewsChannel5's Jack Marschall underwent surgery to donate a kidney on Sept. 11. Jack agreed to blog about his recovery and experience.

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Oct. 23

I was more nervous than I had anticipated prior to meeting my recipient on Monday. And how happy I was after meeting talking with Don Norman of Beckley, West Virginia. He seemed so grateful and so down to earth during our time spent at the Cleveland Clinic. What a wonderful happy ending to this miraculous, life-changing journey for Lauren and me. And how happy Lauren was to meet Don. She was at the hospital with her daughter, Skylar. Uncle Kenny, Lauren's recipient, was there, too, along with my wife, Sharon. Don's mother traveled with him from West Virginia, and we were able to talk with each other for about ten minutes. But she preferred to stay in the background, allowing donor and recipient time to exchange stories, handshakes and wishes for good health now and in the future. What a glorious feeling to have made a difference in the quality someone's life.

No, I never met nor had seen Don Norman before. But then again, by the time we said goodbye it was as though we had been friends for quite some time. I believe you can tell a lot about an individual by looking into their eyes, witnessing the real personality that is there for everyone to see. We saw a man who had been on dialysis seven days a week for the past fifteen months; a man who hadn't had a good night's sleep since his dialysis began. But on Monday we saw a healthy, vibrant-looking man who seemed healthy, happy and ready to get on with his life. Again, my role in the journey has been humbling. And I, too, am grateful for Don Norman allowing me to offer my Gift of Life to benefit him and his family.

Sure it sounds trite, but organ donation truly is the gift that keeps on giving. What a satisfying feeling I am blessed with knowing that another human being has been given a brighter future simply because I was willing and able to share a small part of Jack Marschall. I think I have said this before: I believe this is one of the many reasons I was put on this earth. I was given the gift of loving parents who taught me the Golden Rule early on. It stuck, and all I was doing was giving back. Would someone do the same for me? You bet. For my daughter, Lauren? You bet. For you? You bet.

Give organ donation some thought. Talk it over with your family members. Sign up for the Ohio Donor Registry when you renew your license tag at the BMV. And if you're interested, call LifeBanc, The Cleveland Clinic, University Hospitals or Akron General Medical Center (in this region) to learn more about being tested for organ donation. If that's what you desire then do it. Don't wait too long because someone else -- thousands of people around the country -- are waiting for that phone call that a donor has been found for a life-saving transplant. You can do it now as a living donor or as a member of the Ohio Donor Registry. The rewards of your good deed will change your life ... forever. Just ask Don Norman or me if you have any doubts.

Jack Marschall

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Oct. 22, 2007

Let me be honest; today is the day I never expected to arrive. I am going to meet for the first time the man who received my kidney. I was asked before and after surgery if I would be interested in meeting my recipient. My answer was, "Sure, if that's what he or she wants to do." My intention was to always respect and abide by the wishes of my recipient. And then a few weeks ago I got a call from the Cleveland Clinic. The man from out of state who is now carrying Jack Marschall's left kidney is going to be in town for a check-up on October 22. He would like to meet me.

The question was then, "How do you feel about that?" In a word, "astounded." I've said this before, but I find it difficult to comprehend another human being is doing hopefully better because he was given one of my kidneys to improve his quality of life. I have witnessed miracles throughout my life, but they are tough to fully understand when you have a hand in helping to create them. At least that's my take on a very blessed experience. I don't know how else to say it.

This I believe to be true: I was put on this earth for countless reasons, many of which I am still unaware. This happens to be one of those reasons -- pieces of the human puzzle of which I am so proud and so fortunate to have contributed. As I have said before, I, too, have received indescribable rewards for being an organ donor. I have a story to tell that I share with people I don't even know, interested individuals who like to hear why Lauren and I did what we did. It's a good, positive story about giving back -- about sharing the Gift of Life -- about living in the NOW, not the world of "what ifs." And we have made a difference.

With your prayers, I will be guided on Monday to say hello to my recipient, to say thanks for allowing me to be a part of his life when he possibly needed me the most. It's a new friendship based on love, care and understanding. The benefits to Lauren and me have been astounding. I can only hope and pray the same is true for the man I will meet Monday at the Cleveland Clinic.

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Oct. 15, 2007

As I head back to work this week, I'd like to take another opportunity to thank you for all that you have done for the Marschalls. We did, in fact, receive and benefit from all your positive thoughts, prayers and kindness from the heart. In other words, we couldn't have done it without you.

We are lucky to live in such a giving and caring community. As for those awesome Indians -- I'll take the Tribe in seven games. What a game this past weekend.

Finally, here are some of the many e-mails Lauren and I received from you and your friends. I hope you have enjoyed reading them as much as me. This is the kind of healing medicine you can't find at the store.

Jack,

NO WORDS I SAY WILL EVER BE ENOUGH TO THANK MY LIFE GIVING DAUGHTER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A LIFE salute to you and your daughter and BEST WISHES for a speedy recovery ... My 27 year old daughter stepped up and donated her kidney to me...She said " to me or somebody else " It was 2 years this past June. My Life Saver was Dr. Stuart Fleckner and my daughter was wonderfully taken care by Dr. Kaouk.

THE WHOLE STAFF (facility) really treated us with World Class Care ..it's not just a phrase. Laura waited a year and made sure everything was okay and last January delivered OUR 1st Grandson WOW. You should see him. I don't want to bore you I just wanted to tell the both of you what a WONDERFUL thing you are doing.. If either of you or anyone in your family needs support, feel free to contact me. I'm in Parma too.

Best Wishes and Prayers

Tom Malone Parma, Ohio

Mr. Marschall,

I would like to take this opportunity to say how wonderful it is that you are going to be a organ donor.

I wish there were more people out there like you, and more people who would agree to become organ donors upon their death.

I think if more people realized what a life changing miracle it was that attitudes would change.

I wanted to let you know that on May 7th 2006 my husbands dream of having a life saving kidney transplant came true after being on dialysis for 4 1/2 years.

I would also like to mention that his brother had a kidney transplant 6 years ago and his father was first kidney transplant recipient that lived more than a year at Akron City Hospital in 1969, that kidney lasted him 20 years. He then after being on dialysis for 9 1/2 years was blessed with another kidney transplant which lasted him until his death on Feb. 4th, 2005.

Because of the miracle of dialysis and four selfless strangers such as yourself, my husband had a father for 35 extra years , a brother and my son and I a husband and a father.

You to me Mr Marschall are a true hero ! God Bless you, and thank you for making such a wonderful difference in someone else's life!

Sincerely,

Melissa Nida

Hi Jack,

I read about your story on www.newsnet5.com and must say thank you for being a kind, giving person. I grew up watching you on TV in Cleveland and after graduating from Baldwin Wallace College moved to Colorado but continued to follow Cleveland's news via the internet.

Now I work for a non-profit that helps kids with cancer and life threatening diseases. You and the entire NewsChannel5 team always inspired me to do more for the community and use my skills to help other people. You are an inspiration to the Cleveland viewers and to the greater world. I appreciate your sacrifice and want to say thank you.

Ryanne Haditsch

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Oct. 12, 2007

I'm still looking forward to getting back to work next week. But you know that we're all looking forward to watching the Tribe take on the Red Sox. The Beantown Boys are probably the toughest team in MLB. Still, I think the Indians will match-up well with Manny & Co. Holy Toledo, I sound like a sports reporter.

I take the Tribe in seven games. Lauren and I are feeling better and better, and Uncle Kenny is doing awesome. We'll all be back at the Cleveland Clinic on the 22nd when I meet my recipient for the first time.

I'm anxious, excited and nervous -- all at the same time. In the meantime, here are more of the many emails I received from you and your friends during my recuperation. Thanks for your love, support and prayers. It helped our healing beyond belief.

Hi Jack,

Well the visitors to ClevelandSeniors.com sure got it right a few years ago when they voted for you as their favorite male anchor.

We've updated your page at http://www.clevelandseniors.com/newtoday/jackmarschall.htm and are featuring your selfless deed on our home page too.

You are an inspiration to us all and deserve to be recognized for this. Not only did you save the life of the person who has your kidney but you undoubtedly inspired others to become donors and brought much awareness to the need for organ donors.

Thanks for being such a class act. I too am a fellow born East Clevelander (born on 4th Ave off of Hayden and still go to church at St Philomena's) so I expect great deeds from people like you. ;-)

Take care and get better soon.

Dan Hanson ClevelandSeniors.Com 3150 Payne Ave. Cleveland, OH 44114 216-781-4131 dan@clevelandseniors.com http://www.clevelandseniors.com

Hi Jack,

I just had to write to say I wish you and your family - BEST WISHES for a speedy recovery. You and your daughter are an inspiration to the world!!!

God bless you and you family and hope you are all well on your way to feeling better each and every day!!!

God Bless you

Sue Gerstenberger (a viewer and transplant recipient)

Jack:

My prayers are with you and your family as you continue your recovery. Miss seeing your smiling face each morning when I put my daughters on the bus.

What an amazing man you are.

Kelly Tromba (McGinty)

Jack,

You and your daughter Lauren are truly one of God's gifts to our world. My prayers are with you and all of your family and the family of the person who received your life saving kidney.

Kathy

WHAT A WONDERFUL GIFT.

I received a kidney from a co-worker in 2005. I hardly knew this person. She had lost her job with another company and came to work at Progressive. She was seated next to me. She worked nights, I worked days so we hardly saw each other. Only talked on occasion. Since she was new a few of us asked her to go on a Saturday outing with us.

During that day the conversation turned to my needing a kidney soon. She offered to get tested, and too her surprise was a good match. She never wavered from her offer. We are both doing well all was a success. She was put in a special place at a special time.

I have a whole different out look on life since this gift. I was truly blessed. I have never been so positive in my life. I was able to receive this gift prior to dialysis.

Pat Reed

I was a kidney donor to my 42 yr old "baby brother" 10 yrs ago when living donors were not as prevalent as they are today.

"Someone else" took over my life and got me through the scary part. I have been told I am assured a place in heaven-- so I am free to act out and do whatever--it will not affect my standing!!!

I have a little saying on my desk--"The donor gets so much more out of the transplant than the person receiving it. You wouldn't think so, but it is true." And it is. I am continuously awed by what medical science is able to accomplish.

And very grateful for the talented doctors who are able to perform these miracles. Have a good recovery and enjoy being able to take things slower for a while as you recover. Thoughts are with you.

Susan Pengilly

Dear Jack,

Just a note to let you know that you and your daughter, as well as the recipients, will be in my prayers tomorrow. The transplant program is near and dear to my heart.

My brother died before he could get a liver. I was nearing kidney dialysis, but I got a miracle at about this time last year. I've cleared my calendar tomorrow so I can devote the day to prayer and fasting.

May God's richest blessings be yours,

Linda Donaldson

Hi Jack,

Just wanted to say hello and wish you well as you are about to undergo surgery. I really admire your strength. I'll be thinking of you and praying for you on Tuesday.

Take Care and God Bless,

Karin Boesler

Dear Jack,

Yesterday I saw your story on the morning news of you giving your kidney to someone. I myself am a kidney recipient, and I now have a new and healthy life. I also had my surgery at the clinic and it was my sister whom donated her kidney to me.

There should be more wonderful people in the world like yourself and my sister. I can thank her but that just seem to be enough for someone who has given you back your life.

God Bless You.

Jackie Arbogast

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Oct. 9

I'll be heading back to work next week -- I hope you're ready for the new and improved Jack Marschall. I want to assure you, I have been feeling really good lately. Lauren and I are just about pain free (unless we get an unexpected love hug from my granddaughter, Skylar) and we're walking faster and longer at the gym. Here are a few more emails from viewers like you that shared their thoughts, prayers and stories after I gave the Gift of Life. I think you'd appreciate reading the following:

Jack,

My prayers are with you and your family. I donated my kidney to my father on June 18th (day after Father's Day) and we are both doing excellent. My father is off all antibiotics and only on the anti-rejections that he will be on for life. The doctors are telling him that he can expect 20-30 years from my kidney (I am 37 and my father is 61). My recovery was slow but sure. I returned to work 8 weeks after the surgery. I no longer feel tired or sore. The only reminders I have are the scars... and they are good reminders. What you are doing by bringing publicity to this gift will only help increase awareness.

Steven D. Schneider
Cleveland, Ohio

Dear Mr. Marschall and Lauren,

I was on the waiting list for a pancreas for 19 months. I was having seizures. I had to sell my business and I lost my drivers license. I was stuck at home for over 2 years. On and on. An anonymous donor gave me a new one. Going from near death to back to fishing and exercising has been an award I probably don't deserve but I ain't complaining. I doubt you can see or feel the true effect of what your daughter and yourself have done. Maybe some other people will check the donor box on they're license. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers forever.

Mike, Alive and well.

Dear Mr. Jack Marschall,

Thank you for your donation - the true gift of life. I commend you!

I am the recent recipient of a heart at Cleveland Clinic and my days are filled with more than simple physical recuperation. Even though I've always been a registered organ donor, now I've made it a point to learn more about organ donations, the system, the changes in laws, and so on.

I've been reading your blog the past few days. Keep up the great work.

Thank you once again and bless you for your gift.

Don Peshek Canton, OH

Good Morning

I just wanted to congratulate you on your recent kidney donation. It is an amazing and overwhelming process to go through. I'm actually getting ready to go through the same process that you and your daughter have just experienced. I'm in the paired donor program at the Cleveland Clinic. My brother is in need of a kidney, and since I'm not a match for him I did some research and came across the paired donor program. This will actually be his second transplant. He received his first kidney 10 years ago and that kidney was donated by our Mom. He's now going through rejection.

The paired donor program actually found a match for both of us. The other couple involved is in Pittsburgh. I'm still okay with this even though they are Steelers fans. haha So I will be donating my kidney to a recipient in Pittsburgh, I will have to go there for my surgery and at the same time my brother will be here in Cleveland having his surgery.

That's going to be the toughest part for our family. We will be having 2 family members in surgery, in two different states at the exact same time. We will be the first paired donor match at the Pittsburgh University so we are looking forward to it as long as everything still is a perfect match once they get our final test results and the surgery date scheduled.

I just wanted to Thank You for keeping your blog and keeping everyone updated on your progress. It's an amazing thing to go through and I just wanted to commend you on your gift of life to a perfect stranger. Hang in there and remember that the pain you are feeling is pains of joy that you helped save a life. Andrea Poploske

Andrea Poploske Highland Hts., OH

Oct. 8:

I thought I had a pretty tough stomach when it comes to viewing surgery pictures, like the kind you see on the TLC network. But the rules change when you are viewing doctors working their magic on your own body in the O-R. That's what I did for a couple hours at home on Saturday. NewsChannel 5 videographer Brian Archer was nice enough to bring over a couple DVD's showing Lauren's and my kidney donation on September 11. It was a sight to behold, surreal in so many ways. And all the intense labor by Dr. Jihad Kaouk and his talented staff paid off in a big way, allowing Lauren and me to give the Gift of Life with no complications. I was taken aback by Dr. Kaouk's work -- so delicate, cautious and caring. And yet, he is so confident in what he does with an air of humanity. In other words, he's down to earth -- he is so real and such a gracious human being. As for me, the surgery was awesome. Miraculous, yes. But Big Jack got a little weak in the knees. Come on, that was my body they were working on. And, of course, Lauren and my wife, Sharon, had to chuckle when the doctor assisting Dr. Kaouk sat at a table and trimmed the FAT off my detached kidney. I said, "Hey, I just have a little more padding than Lauren." It was awesome to watch. Dr. Kaouk's work is nothing less than miraculous.

The following emails were sent to me after my surgery. I finally cracked the DaVinci Code to get into my Internet Outlook at work. Your thoughts, words, prayers and kindness shown to Lauren and me and the now-famous Uncle Kenny were overwhelming. I'll be sharing some examples with you over the coming days. I should be back at work in about a week.

Jack, I just wanted to thank you and your daughter Lauren for making such a courageous choice.

You guys don't know me, and I certainly don't know either of you, but that doesn't matter.

Thank you for setting a fine example. I'm glad you know one of your recipients, and even if you never get to know the other, it shouldn't matter. You changed his or her life forever.

Someday I may need an organ transplant too. I already know this in my 30s. Hopefully some family will be just as brave. I always wanted to be an organ donor, but I no longer qualify because of my virus (hepatitis C, chronic). Now, I try and recruit friends and family to do it.

God bless, heal fast, and thank you a thousand times over.

Erin Hosek

Dear Jack,

I came across your blog about your organ donation: it's always great to read a first-hand account of someone who has decided to give of themselves in such a unique way. I hope you're recovering well, and that your writing about your experience will inspire others to reflect on this issue. Thanks for your mention of my book, Last Best Gifts. The book's website (http://www.lastbestgifts.com/) links to a few reviews, if you're interested. I'd be happy to send you a copy of the book -- just let me know the address I should mail it to.

Best wishes,

Kieran

Hi Jack.........

I just wanted to drop a line to say I hope your recovery is still going well. I hope your daughter is recovering and that your brother in law is feeling much better and healthier. I was so glad to hear on the news that the transplant was a success and that you all were doing good. You have been in my prayers, as well as the recipient of your kidney, I hope he/she is recovering and feeling better too. I haven't heard or not if you know who the recipient is. If not, I hope that some day you get to meet each other. I still pray every day that I get the chance to meet my donor's family. I'm sure your recipient would be very honored to meet you. Take care and good health to all of you.

Sincerely, Catherine Ker

Jack & Lauren:

I wanted to share with you my life this past week…

On Monday I stopped on the way home from work to pick up my family’s favorite “fold-over gyro pizza” for dinner. We always get the family size so we have leftovers for the next day! Tuesday evening I attempted after dinner to install a new shower head in the boy’s bathroom. You know, the kind that we can use to wash the dog in the winter…it leaked endlessly so my wife returned it to get another brand. Wednesday evening I attempted to get my motorcycle started (once again). There’s no way that it’s going to run this season. But hey, there’s always spring to look forward to! Thursday I installed the (new) shower head in the boy’s bathroom. This one works and leaks far less! Tonight I’m looking forward to going to the haunted houses at the Berea fairgrounds with our friends and family. I can’t wait…

Why is this such a big deal? It’s a big deal because it’s just average things being done by an average person that so many thousands of people do every day. The difference is that I get to do this because of the courage and unselfishness of my brother, Kevin, donating one of his kidneys to me when mine failed. Since October 25, 1996 I have lived a full and normal life because of this gift. My life is so normal in fact that at times I forget how fortunate I am. Because of my transplant being so successful, I can do virtually everything I did when I was healthy. I’m able to provide for my family, enjoy all of my interests and hobbies, and especially enjoy the time that I spend with all of my family and friends.

I was once told several years ago when I was interviewing for a job that “whatever the mind of man can conceive, he can and will achieve”. Well, thanks to my brother I’ve achieved life – and I’m living every day of it to its fullest. There are thousands less fortunate than me that have been waiting and will continue to wait for organs. As you know it’s a very complicated process. Donors must be in good health, tissue types must match as close as possible, dozens of tests are required, and more. But fewer donors = less matches. More donors = a higher number of successful transplants. It’s simple math…

Thank you both for making a difference. Myself, as well as thousands of others are living proof that through technology and love lives can be saved. You have made a difference in someone’s life that very few people are able to do or don’t take the opportunity to.

I keep telling people that they need to remember it’s your soul that’s needed in heaven – not your organs!

Terry Brown Columbia Station, Ohio

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I was looking over the dozens of emails I received at NewsChannel 5 before giving the Gift of Life. There's no doubt in my mind those words of support, comfort and prayer made the difference. I thought you'd appreciate me sharing a few of those emotional messages from you and folks around Greater Cleveland.

I will try and give you a sampling of my most recent emails after surgery as soon as I can remember my computer password. I think I've changed tricky passwords one too many times.

And hey, what about that Tribe? Awesome job in Game One!

Keeping in step with the team victory Lauren and I experienced on September 11, here's a sampling of what makes Cleveland the Best Location in the Nation. Like I say, you made all the difference.

Subject: Blessings to you and your family

I saw the article in the Plain Dealer about the upcoming kidney donations and I just want to say "thank you" on behalf of your recipient.

I work with families of children who have received life-saving transplants, my brother and I are both waiting for kidney transplants ourselves, and my uncle had a kidney transplant over ten years ago at the Cleveland Clinic.

It's so refreshing to read good news about remarkable individuals helping others.

I will keep you, your daughter, your brother-in-law and your kidney recipient in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing your story, as well, since it will do much to increase awareness of the need for organ donors.

Subject: kidney transplant

Dear Jack,

I just read that you will be donating a kidney to a perfect stranger. How wonderful of you to do that. This coming January it will be 9 years since I donated a kidney to my son.

I had just turned 60 years of age but because of my excellent health, I was able to donate. He has 4 siblings but the Doctors figured that if he needed another kidney down the road, one of them would be able to. My son will be 48 this December and has diabetes since the age of 5.

A few years ago my son received a pancreas transplant. That donor was a healthy young man that died in an accident. Thank God for his family to donate the gift to prolong my sons life and make the quality of it much better.

This is exactly what you will be doing for someone and whose life you will change forever.

Subject: Your donation

Hi Jack

Hope you're well. I read about the marvelous thing you and your family are doing regarding organ donation. I admire your courage and that your family. May the Lord bless and keep you, may His face shine down upon you, and give you peace.

I'll be praying for you and your family.

Subject: Role Model for Others

Hi Jack, I just wanted to write after hearing your news this morning on the show and reading the article in today's paper. I can't tell you how wonderful it is to hear someone like you doing something so selfless and remarkable.

Several members of my family (Mom, aunts, grandmother) have PKD, polycystic kidney disease, where cysts grow on the kidneys and eventually impede their function to the point of needing dialysis and a transplant, so kidney donors are truly near and dear to my family.

Given that we still don't know if my sister and I have it, we are unable to be donors, but it's people like you who are healthy and able that give us all hope. Thank you for being an example to others to do the same.

There are many more positive messages you sent. They gave Lauren and me the confidence and strong faith we needed to make our journey a success. It worked. And I humbly say thank you.

Again, I will try and crack the Jack Marschall DaVinci code in order to share with you some emails I have received after our surgery. We proudly feel that we did a good job in sharing the Gift of Life. Uncle Kenny and my recipient are both doing well. And thanks to you, we all are doing well and recuperating nicely.

Jack Marschall

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There is one question I am asked several times a day since giving the Gift of Life on September 11: Who was the recipient? My answer is that I honestly don't know, but that I was hoping to meet him or her in the near future.

Guess what? We ARE going to meet each other for the first time in about three weeks. The folks at the Cleveland Clinic have been gracious and so caring throughout Lauren's and my life-changing journey. And they are keeping that giving spirit alive by planning a get together for donor and recipient. The details are still in the planning stage. To say I am overjoyed would be an understatement.

The only facts I am aware of is that the recipient of my kidney is a man who lives out of state. That's it. He, too, has graciously given his consent to meet me, my wife, Sharon, my daughter, Lauren, and, of course, Uncle Kenny. I am under the impression the gentleman wanted to simply wait until we were all well healed and strong enough to shake hands and say our hellos without having too much pain from a hug or two. As someone at the Clinic told me, when the meeting takes place it will show how we have come full circle in this once in a lifetime experience. It will be an emotional celebration.

Lauren and I still find it difficult to put into words how surreal it seems that another person is living their life with one of our organs inside them. It hit home again last weekend when we saw Uncle Kenny at a family birthday party. There was Lauren standing next to a smiling, healthy and happy Uncle Kenny. He's doing so very well, living easier after receiving one of Lauren's kidneys. And to think my 23 year-old daughter decided on her own to take that step -- an unselfish act of love and kindness -- to give her uncle a marked improvement on his quality of life. As I have said before, how proud Sharon and I are of Lauren, and all our children for that matter. Giving the Gift of Life leaves one with a legacy of love and a true spirit of giving all that we can give.

Many of you do the same in a different manner for those in need of better health and a better life. The realities of life are tough on all of us. But the opportunities and choices we have can make the world a kinder and gentler place. Loving and helping another person makes the world a better place. We all benefit from your acts of kindness. And we are all changed forever once the offer to give of ourselves is made. I know Lauren feels much like I do, that we have forever been changed after our organ donation. It's a great feeling -- a blessed feeling -- and we are so thankful that we were given this miraculous opportunity. And pretty soon, I'll be able to thank the man who is walking around with Jack Marschall's left kidney. A miracle, indeed.

Jack Marschall

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I think it's a given that we look at life a little differently or more closely after going through major surgery. Yea, Superman Jack (smile) is just like you. My family and I took a drive out to Chagrin Falls on Sunday. What a beautiful day to walk around the Falls, stop by the ice cream shop, browse through books at the Fireside Book Shop and just pause to enjoy life's little treasures. I did this with a clear conscience -- the Browns were in good hands, beating the crap out of the Ravens!

Spending time with my wife, Sharon, has been the big bonus of my recovery. She has taken good care of my daughter, Lauren, and me. And we have been able to spend more time with Skylar, Lauren's four year-old daughter. She makes us laugh at the silliest things. But realizing what Sharon and I have is our gift better realized after I was fortunate enough to give The Gift of Life. We have been married for 34 years. And for all you rookies out there, you never stop working hard at making a good marriage better. Sharon and I have have been blessed with four children, two boys and two girls, and three grandchildren, all girls. We have had our ups and downs, good days and bad days, much like you. But the good far outweigh the bad, and for that I am thankful, grateful and blessed.

Sharon has always been a giving person, but she is also very independent, and she has many times over proven to have the right answer at the right time to help our union last. We try and negotiate when "my way is the best way." We give and take, and we try to listen to one another -- really listen -- when we argue. Some couples think an argument means it's time to throw in the towel. In reality, you build your relationship on problem-solving and crisis-solving, and it only makes your marriage and relationship stronger. I am a lucky man to have chosen such a gracious and loving partner. I knew that before, and I realize that even more now that Sharon and I have been able to spend more time together. And did I tell you she is one heck of a cook and baker? I only benefit from Shaorn's culinary mistakes. The last baking gaff she made was in 1984!

I will leave the movie reviews up to Jim O'Brien at NewsChannel5 and Clint O'Connor at the Plain Dealer. But Sharon and I did see a good movie this past weekend that you might enjoy. It's an adult movie entitled, Feast of Love. It stars Morgan Freeman, Greg Kinnear and Radha Mitchell. It's a slice of life -- the good and the bad -- and has a texture to it that really strikes a cord for putting life as it is on the big screen. It's funny, sad, tearful and wonderful -- all at the same time. As the insurance commercial says, "Life comes at you fast." It really does, and Feast of Love makes that apparent for two hours of entertainment with a big slice or reality. It's not the movie of the year, but you might enjoy it with your partner if you find the time over the next few weeks.

And finally, I just got done re-reading Message in a Bottle by Nicholas Sparks. I'm a romantic as you know (smile) and Sparks has always been one of my favorite writers. I'm ready to start his new one, Dear John. I'm also ready, Legacy by Dr. Barrie Sanford Greiff. I've only read a couple chapters, but this is a book worth buying. The subtitle reads, The Giving of Life's Greatest Treasures. The treasures include loving, learning, laboring, laughing, lamenting, linking, living, leading and leaving. The jacket states, It's a book about sharing our life and contributing to a better tomorrow. It's a quick read. You may want to pick it up if you like pondering what kind of legacy we all leave behind for our friends and family.

Lauren's and my recuperation is still going well and every day is definitely better than the previous day. We are still sore, and we have regained about half the strength we had before surgery. We'll get there sooner than later, and I'll be back to work in a couple more weeks. Boy, will my co-workers be happy! How are they surviving without me? (smile)

Jack Marschall

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We got excellent news from our doctor on Thursday. During our first medical follow-up, Lauren's and my surgeon said our recovery was going well -- no complications and no extraordinary problems. That's so good to hear after wondering about one thing or another since our kidney donation surgery on September 11. Sure, we still have some minor pain, and our physical activities are still restricted for at least another four weeks. But so far, so good.

I will again say thanks for your prayers and positive thoughts for the Marschalls during our Gift of Life journey that is still very much in progress. Lauren and I had faith in each donating a kidney because we were supported by you, our family and many friends. And again, we take this role seriously and responsibly. It has become our role in life -- helping two people in need in a way that makes us so proud and so humble. We are still overcome with joy at the effort that was made by everyone involved, especially the medical team at the Cleveland Clinic. You would have smiled if you saw the BIG smile on the face of Dr. Jihad Kaouk. He was happy for Lauren and me during our visit today. But he was pleased that our effort has left us happy, healthy and satisfied. He is a good man, and he has become a good friend.

I will be back to work in a couple weeks. In the meantime, the blogs will continue. I'm never lost for words. I guess that a good thing. Think about and talk about organ donation with your family. You can change someone's life and your own at the same time. We have been part of a miracle and we will never be the same. Awesome. Thanks again for all your support.

Jack Marschall

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I think it's time to write a blog that doesn't exceed ten thousand words. I'm trying to show mercy for those of you kind enough to keep up on the condition of the Marschalls. We've got that healing feeling, and it feels so good.

In a word, Lauren and I are feeling "great." I don't mean to say we're not still sore and aching in our lower belly area. But we are feeling wonderful compared to those first few days after surgery. I marvel at what the doctors were able to do in accomplishing our goals: giving the Gift of Life. We entered a new world on September 11, having become organ donors in a procedure called Laparoscopic Donor Nephrectomy. Is that a mouthful or what? It was two weeks ago Lauren and I walked into the Cleveland Clinic at approximately 6:00 a.m. to start preparing for our busy day and our unforgettable experience. Right behind us was my brother-in-law, Ken Jakubecz. He is now walking around his home with Lauren's kidney giving him a new lease on the physical part of his life. We pray Ken keeps Lauren's kidney, and we say the same prayers for my recipient, too.

It is still difficult for Lauren and me to comprehend a part of our body is now hard at work inside another human being. I see miracles every day in the small things that we might consider coincidences or plain lucky situations. And I certainly consider our kidney donation a miracle, and then some. We have indeed been lucky to have suffered no complications from the surgery. Our recovery is progressing slow but steady. And let me tell you, we have been a doctor's best patient. Honest! We've taken it easy while walking every day for simple exercise and strengthening. No running, jumping or lifting more than 15 pounds. We're eating healthy and drinking lots of water. Like I say, the intense pain that followed immediately after surgery is gone. We now have more of a dull, tender pain that can be handled by taking Tylenol. I've said before, our pain is eased by the gift we have given. Was it worth it? You bet. Would I do it all over again knowing what I know now. You bet.

We go to see our surgeon on Thursday. I think Dr. Jihad Kaouk will be pleased. He is an awesome physician and a good friend. His title is Director, Robotic Urologic Surgery. He is truly down to earth, possessing a gentle, personable and caring bedside manner. We have been in good hands, literally. Dr. David Goldfarb is my recipient's and Ken's doctor. He was nice enough to pay Lauren and me a visit in the hospital after the procedures were completed. Like other physicians you know, they, too, are dedicated to their profession. They have a passion for what they do, and they have a passion for people. I will let you know if we get a passing grade on Thursday. Again, thanks for your prayers and positive thoughts. You made all the difference in helping to get us back to a somewhat normal routine. We really are doing well. Our health is good. Life is beautiful. That says it all.

Jack Marschall

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It may come as a surprise, but every once in a while I have to check the dictionary for either spelling or to find out what the heck a word means. I call this The Marschall Plan -- walk softly but carry a big Webster's Dictionary! Not many years ago I looked at my Webster Handy College Dictionary (Third Edition) to find the meaning of the word, "altruism." I had a pretty good idea it was just being a Good Samaritan kind of person. And I was close. The word is defined as, "regard for the welfare of others; benevolent practices." Long definition short, it's simply choosing to help folks and to do the right thing.

The reason for the English lesson is that I first heard the word altruism when it was used in connection with Living Organ Donations. It sounded like Superman was going to donate his kidney. Well, I have come to realize we are all altruistic beings in that most of us help others in our family, our neighborhood or in our community. No, you don't have to donate an organ -- it's about donating your time -- lending an ear -- giving of yourself in some small fashion for the betterment of others. And doing something good is something good to think about.

In fact, I found several books online that we can all read having to do with acts of altruism in our everyday lives. You don't have to read about cutting your elderly neighbor's lawn, volunteering for groups like Meals on Wheels, spending time at area homeless shelters or helping out at countless agencies that help babies, children men, women, and families who may have fallen through the cracks of our shaky and brittle economy. As you know, the reward is just as great for the helper as it is for those whom are helped. It's a circle of love that never stops giving once the process has begun. It's kind of like the movie, Paying it Forward. The cycle of helping becomes contagious, a positive self-sustaining engine that runs on caring and sharing and giving of yourself. It's a beautiful continuum. But reading about different forms of altruism can give us all some unique ideas for the future.

I have not read these books, but they sound interesting and inviting for those of you who might want to learn more about acts of altruism, from A to Z. As you'll see, even kindness can be controversial. I found these books on Amazon.com and Borders.com:

The Brighter Side of Human Nature: Altruism Empathy in Everyday Life by Alfie Kohn (Paperback - April 1, 1992)

"Drawing from hundreds of studies in half a dozen fields, "The Brighter Side of Human Nature" makes a powerful case that caring and generosity are just as natural as selfishness and aggression. This lively refutation of cynical assumptions about our species considers the nature of empathy and the causes of war, why we (incorrectly) explain all behavior in terms of self-interest, and how we can teach children to care."

Unlimited Love: Altruism, Compassion, and Service by Stephen G. Post (Paperback - May 2003)

"What if we could prove that love heals mental illness and is vital to successful therapeutic outcomes in all areas of health care? What if we could prove that people who live more for others than for self have greater psychological well-being? Professor Stephen G. Post, who heads the Institute for Research on Unlimited Love, is developing a new positive scientific program that integrates practice with high-level empirical research and religious-ethical ideas in order to explore these questions. The goal is to understand how our complex brains, unique imaginations, communicative abilities, reasoning powers, moral sense, and spiritual promptings give rise to the remarkable practice of unselfish love for our neighbors—or for those we do not even know."

Last Best Gifts: Altruism and the Market for Human Blood and Organs (Paperback) by Kieran Healy (Author)

"More than any other altruistic gesture, blood and organ donation exemplifies the true spirit of self-sacrifice. Donors literally give of themselves for no reward so that the life of an individual—often anonymous—may be spared. But as the demand for blood and organs has grown, the value of a system that depends solely on gifts has been called into question, and the possibility has surfaced that donors might be supplemented or replaced by paid suppliers. Last Best Gifts offers a fresh perspective on this ethical dilemma by examining the social organization of blood and organ donation in Europe and the United States."

That last book really caught my eye. We have all read about either people or nations that condone the selling of organs for big profits. And that would be the typical attitude of someone seeking a monetary reward for their live-saving organ. But that euphoric feeling I speak of evaporates when you give the Gift of Life only in return for something, anything, especially money. And then I wonder, what is my kidney worth? Or a portion of my liver? How about a lobe of my lung? And who sets the price? And HOW do you put a price on a pieces and parts of a beautiful human body? That is beyond my comprehension.

In my opinion, to give the Gift of Life willingly, lovingly, and asking for nothing in return is the only path we can take in a system that is based on passion for humanity. It goes back to altruism and regard for the welfare of others. The gift is in the giving -- that is the profit or the reward that I can feel in my heart. It's not something you deposit in the bank, but yet it has become a huge part of Lauren's and my life that is priceless -- a simple act of kindness which has left us humbled, proud and privileged because we did a favor for two people that needed help. A "payment" of "thank you" carries more value than all the money in the world.

Jack Marschall

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My bio at the station and my station in life, so to speak, is one of humor, happiness and smiles. Yea, I joke around a lot!

To this day, I can remember walking down Charles Road in East Cleveland and saying hi to friends, neighbors and even strangers. The greeting was usually returned with a similar smile, and many times it came from people I had never seen before. Today, I think you might tell your children to be careful in saying hello to anyone they don't know. I think that is smart. But the reality is that in most cases, our children seldom have the chance to meet or greet someone whom they don't know because our guardian angels are always close by, mom and dad, grandma and grandpa or an older sibling.

The analogy is weak, I admit. But it is later in life that we might meet that same, friendly stranger who is now in need of a life-saving organ. They are a good person we may discover; they are much like us, in fact. But unlike us, they are literally dying for an organ transplant. It might be someone we can help through a Living Organ Donation. Or possibly, it is someone your family will meet at the hospital when you are considering donating your loved one's organs following an accident.

As Lauren and I have learned, the process of organ donation is life-changing for both the donor and the recipient. It is also an issue that needs to become a priority in order to help our brothers and sisters in need, those in our own family, and those in our extended community family who are suffering every day, waiting, hoping and praying.

The following information is from the LifeBanc website. It says a lot:

"We live in a nation that continually honors heroes in uniform, such as military, police force, firefighters and medical professionals. But there are less frequently acknowledged individuals who also deserve our thanks-organ and tissue donors.

"Currently nearly 100,000 people in the United States are waiting for organ transplants, with more than 1,500 of those individuals right here in Northeast Ohio . Every 13 minutes a new name is added to the national waiting list.

"On average, 17 people will die today because an organ isn't available in time. The people on the waiting list are not waiting for a cure to be discovered, a new therapy or new drug to be approved. They are simply waiting for a family -- in the deepest moments of grief -- to help a stranger by donating life."

LifeBanc.org
Unos.org

If you know Jack Marschall, you know I'm not a visibly opinionated kind of guy. I enjoy helping folks in my own way -- under the radar, if you will. I have donated time to help local agencies help others. And my only fault is that I can seldom say no when asked to pitch-in.

I DO pitch-in because making a positive difference in an individual's life is the greatest impact we can make. Boy, talk about a natural high! I admit is IS the gift that keeps on giving.

My personality has been slightly altered by giving the Gift of Life. I can say the same for my daughter, Lauren. I humbly believe we have a greater responsibility to make you and yours aware how easy it is to be tested and screened for becoming a Living Organ Donor.

There is a greater responsibility for you to say "yes" when asked by the BMV folks, "Do you want to be an organ donor?"

And there is a greater responsibility for our community and nation to answer the call to meet the needs of good people who are dying every day because they failed to receive a life-saving organ transplant. Right now, you can go to LifeBanc.org and join the Ohio Organ Donor Registry. Why not check it out?

Paireddonationnetwork.org
Kidney.org

Knowledge is a wonderful thing. Organ donation starts with your willingness to learn more, to talk more with your family about the issue, to read more of the online volumes of information to help you make a wise choice that could lead to the biggest decision of your life.

And how grateful and pleased it would make Lauren and me to have played a small role in your journey.

Do yourself a favor and give The Cleveland Clinic and University Hospitals a call to learn about organ donation testing. And read more about this critical issue in this world of ours where people helping people is the only way to pass on the love, health and blessings we have been given. Louis Armstrong sang, "What a Wonderful World." He was right, it is wonderful in every way possible. And you can make it that much better by just thinking about giving the Gift of Life. Thanks again for your prayers, thoughts and good wishes. You have made our journey more beautiful than you will ever know. We are forever grateful.

Jack Marschall

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In case you're wondering, I have changed the Sirius channel in our car from CNN to "Movin' Easy." That says it all.

Lauren and I are movin' easy these days, but taking great strides to stay healthy, strong and active while resting when our bodies tell us it's time for a break.

It's a delicate balance that many of you, your loved ones or friends have faced after major surgery. We want so badly to get back to normal, yet we know pushing too hard will undo all the positive steps we have taken, literally. We are feeling fine, still sore, but doing quite well. And so is my brother-in-law, Ken Jakubecz, and my recipient, who is now home with his family.

Here's a funny note that I'm sure you'd appreciate.

The other night we were sitting on the couch watching the Emmys. My four year-old granddaughter, Skylar, motioned for me to come closer. When I did, she whispered in my ear, "I think we should give Uncle Adam a kidney."

From the mouths of babes ... Adam is one of my two sons and was visiting at the time, half-asleep on the couch. He heard Skylar's "whisper" and said, "Don't worry Sky, Uncle Adam's kidneys are working just fine." Thank goodness!

The emotional part of Lauren's and my journey is constantly with us, thanks to your thoughts and prayers and the unexpected greetings I have been blessed with in public.

My wife, Sharon, drove me to Marc's at Southland this afternoon. While inside, a nice lady glanced my way a few times and finally said, "Are you who I think you are?" I smiled and said, "I think I am." She laughed and said how surprised she was to see that I was walking around and looking so well. Those are her words, but I admit I was looking pretty cool! (smile)

She then asked how Lauren was doing, and I said just great. I said we're all doing quite well -- donors and recipients. And then with tears in her eyes, she put her hand out and we shook hands. She said, "Thank you for doing what you did." Holy Toledo. I'll be a basket case before this is all over. I mean, I cry at Disney cartoons! I teared-up and thanked her for her comment. Minutes later, the same thing happened with another very nice customer who wanted to make sure everybody was okay, even Uncle Kenny.

On the one hand, it's so difficult to comprehend the tremendous love and compassion shown by so many of you around Greater Cleveland. On the other hand, I'm not surprised because that is what makes our community so unique and strong.

The tall buildings are great, our museums and tourist destinations are second to none, and I, too, love the Indians, Browns and Cavs.

Yet, we tip our hand as to where we're from because Clevelanders care. It's that simple.

I previously made a reference to this journey one day "being over." But I have come to understand it will never end in the minds and the hearts of the Marschall family, and especially in the lives we have touched across the region.

Lauren and I are proud of what we have accomplished. And that pride extends beyond our family and Uncle Kenny's to you and yours. We are so lucky to be alive and living in an area known as, "The Best Location in the Nation." I've heard that line since I was a kid, but never appreciated it true meaning until now. Y

ou have made our Gift of Life contribution special simply by your words, actions, thoughts and prayers. How profound. We will be forever grateful. We are Cleveland. And we are special because of you. From my heart to yours, thank you so very much.

Jack Marschall

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There was a time when weekends were made for Michelob. Now, they are precious for family time, rest and recuperation. This past weekend, Lauren and I went to the mall, "to feel normal again," as we said. We did, and boy, are we tired. As many of you know, there is a fine line between staying moderately active following surgery, and making sure you get proper rest in between walks to make sure the body is healing. That is what we are trying to do.

Every day is better than the next, but we still start and end our day walking like Herman Munster. I should say that I look like Herman. Lauren more resembles Lillie. For most of our day -- it's all good -- taking walks in the neighborhood, the back yard or going to the grocery store like we did on Saturday with my wife, Sharon. Considering surgery was on Tuesday, Sept. 11, we are doing great. My brother-in-law, Ken Jakubecz, came home from the Cleveland Clinic on Sunday. Ken says he is tired but feeling wonderful after receiving one of Lauren's kidneys last Tuesday. Doctors say my kidney recipient is also progressing well and was expected to leave the hospital shortly if there were no complications. That, of course, makes us happier than we can put into words. Sunday was spent visiting my daughter, Sarah, and her family in Medina. Like I say, family time has never been more special.

I think you would appreciate this. Much of our healing is trying to get the body back to routines that we all have. And for the record, my adult children seem to have inherited their sense of humor from dad. Like me, they have great personalities. Like me, they are humble. (smile) Unlike me, they all have a full head of hair! While eating my bowl of Raisin Bran cereal at the dining room table Saturday morning, a loud "tooting" noise was heard coming from the chair on which I was sitting. Lauren and I were both having breakfast. Lauren looked at me and said, "Was that you?" I said, "Yea, it felt great." Lauren replied, "Awesome." We both started laughing -- so hard that we had to look away from one another, the laughter causing pain in our bellies. It doesn't get much better than that!

This you already know -- that pain helps to put the pleasures of life in perspective. You tend not to take much for granted any more; we seem to appreciate the routine, simple things in life. While we were at the mall on Saturday, a nice woman came up to me with tears in her eyes and said, "Thanks for what you did." We chatted for awhile, and before long I, too, had tears in my eyes -- trying to say thank you -- trying to briefly explain it was my pleasure to help someone else. This journey has been an emotional roller coaster of the desirable kind. My family and I again want to say thank you for your prayers and your support. It made all the difference. We are a close knit community that cares for one another. Greater Cleveland is truly Great because of the people who live her. The Marschalls consider ourselves lucky to know so many of you truly care, and that the journey is as much yours as it is ours. Sharing this experience is the greatest gift of all.

Jack Marschall

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Thursday, Sept. 13

My daughter, Lauren, and I will be going home today, just two days after we each donated a kidney to recipients at The Cleveland Clinic.

Before giving the gift of life, doctors at The Transplant Center told us what to expect after this amazing laparoscopic surgery. There is definitely pain one must deal with -- both from the incisions and also from gas that builds in the stomach before our plumbing got back to normal.

I know that may sound kind of funny, but it can get pretty intense at times. Still, Lauren and I were up and walking down the hallway much of Wednesday in order to build our strength and prevent blood clots in our legs and other parts of our bodies. We're doing amazingly well, and everyone says we look great. Hey, I always look great!

But the Clinic's team of specialists also reminded us we have gone through major surgery, and taking it slow when we get home is critical for a speedy recovery.

Yes, I want to go home and get life back to normal. But as I have said before, the memories and personal impact from our journey will stick with us for the rest of our lives.

My brother-in-law, Ken Jakubecz, received Lauren's kidney. His health continues to improve as Lauren's gift is shared with someone she loves. That is so awesome.

My recipient also continues to do well. I have a feeling I will have an opportunity to meet him or her in the weeks to come -- a chance for me to say thanks for this once in a lifetime opportunity. Someone else is walking around with my kidney inside them, making them healthier and hopefully happier. That feeling for me is indescribable.

Happiness and success are measured in different ways by different people. Lauren and I are sore, but the pain is eased when it's caused to help somebody who was suffering much worse than us through no fault of their own.

In my humble opinion, the Cleveland Clinic Transplant team is World Class in every way. To say we have been in good hands would be an understatement. And we have been in wonderful hands spiritually and emotionally thanks to you and all the folks who have been praying for us.

We did it! Thanks for your prayers and positive thoughts for everyone involved, especially my wife, Sharon, who was given the most difficult assignment of all -- keeping an eye on her husband, daughter and brother.

I will stay in touch in the coming days to update you on our recovery. It's hard to put into words how grateful we are for your support -- how proud I am of Lauren, and how thankful I am for our family and friends who stood by in support and love of our effort.

Give organ donation some thought. It will change someone's life for the better, and both of you will never be the same.

Jack Marschall

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Tuesday, Sept. 11

I'm about an hour away from surgery at The Cleveland Clinic -- tired, excited, overjoyed and in a state of bliss at just the idea of what is about to take place -- giving the gift of life.

My daughter, Lauren, and her uncle, Ken Jakubecz, are in the OR, and we have been told all is going well. I had tears in my eyes when Lauren was wheeled away. I hugged her tightly, and said words cannot describe the pride her family has in the love and life she is sharing with my wife's brother. As you may know, Ken has been on dialysis for eight years. He's a Vietnam vet who has had a rough time of it, dealing with serious health issues for much of his adult life. The kidney Lauren is donating will change that, not in solving all of his problems, but rather giving Ken a shot at improving the quality of his life for several years. What a life-changing experience for both donor and recipient.

My kidney donation is going to someone whom I have not met. I hope that will happen at some point so I can tell him or her what an honor and privilege it is for me to share my good fortunes with another human being. Like I wrote yesterday, time is one of our most valuable commodities we possess. Helping in the healing of another person is a gift I will keep with me for the rest of my life. They, too, will hopefully feel even better than me as a result of my donation. The gift can be simply in the asking, "Can I do something for you?" It shows we care.

Think about living organ donation. Think about creating a miracle that will change your life. And I'll be thinking of all of you, the folks who are praying for the Marschalls on this very special day. Thank you for sharing your stories with me. I will share mine with you after today's surgery. It's time to go. Say a prayer.

Jack Marschall

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Monday, Sept. 10

How does one begin to write a blog that speaks with all due humility about giving the gift of life? I must tell you that I am the lucky one who has benefited from a blessed, lucky, healthy and beautiful life. My good deed is merely my own way of giving back for all that I have been given. There is no hidden agenda or great expectations that I have -- all but one, I should say. And that is simply helping to improve the quality of someone's life.

Like you, I live one day at a time and never assume tomorrow or the next minute is guaranteed.

Like you, I have had hardships along the way while my wife and I reared four beautiful children and three grandchilden.

Like you, I have tried doing the best that I could do at home and at work.

But don't you wonder what more you can do to help someone in need of a happier, healthier life?

Don't you, too, want to give a little bit more when you feel a personal calling to aid in the hardships of others -- to ease their pain, so to speak?

That's all I'm really doing. Giving part of me to help someone's brother, sister, mom, dad or child. What an overwhelming feeling it has given me. What a privilege this journey has been for my family at home, and my extended family of which we are all members in this beautiful world of ours.

How proud I am of my daughter, Lauren, who volunteered and proved to be a donor match for her Uncle Kenny. Lauren told me today she lives in the now, not in a world of "what ifs." Like many of you, we are living The Golden Rule. And I am silly enough to believe there is someone out there who might be willing to donate a life-saving organ to me or my loved ones if the need arose.

That's what life is all about. If not, then why the heck are we here; what is our purpose?

I am speaking for myself when I ask you to think about living organ donation -- giving the gift of life. Take it from me, the miracle is shared by the donor as much as the recipient.

This will be a big week for the Marschalls. Then again, this has been quite a life for the Marschall family since I was a kid growing-up in East Cleveland. I had hair back then!! But I'm pretty much the same guy today.

Thanks for all the support you have shown my family and me and the prayers you have shared. September 11 will be a good day for us thanks to the power of positive thinking and good wishes from all of you.

Lauren and I are taking a very small step to change the world for the better. Share whatever gift you have, especially your time, to help another. In the long run, it makes our extended family happier and healthier, and makes our world a better place in which to live.

Jack Marschall